| Sex without love (or $$$) is a waste of time. If sex without love was so great, prostitutes would be the happiest people. (The window girls in Amsterdam seem happy making 1000 euros/day.) *** Sex without Love is less complicated than sex with love, as long as you warn your partner to NOT fall into Love with you. Quality of Love versus quantity of lovers. (It's not possible for me to NOT love someone I'm having sex with.) My advice is: if you're not a virgin, you have nothing to lose but your life and you may become a sex addict/prostitute. Semen is vital fluid, like blood, energy. Vampires drain it. Vampires suck semen. If a person accepts that semen you either love, hate or fear that person forever-after. Semen Vampires. (xxx-Rated, Must be 18+ to View.) The Green River slayer killed prostitutes because he didn't like giving them money. Sex for fun or pleasure, to fulfil a fantasy? Can a woman love more than one man at a time? (Yes.) Can she turn on and off her love? (Yes.) Is the fantasy as good as the reality? (Yes.) Fantasy and dreams come true but if it happened as planned, life would be boring. The hard part is deciding what to do with the semen. (Bukkake) |
| LOVE: Agape, Eros (Erotic) & Philia By Martin Luther King |
| What others say about Sex without Love The pleasure is for only a moment and it passes like a dream and at the end thereof you find death through knowing it. -- Egyptian Saying Sex is like an addiction, the more you have, the more you want. My girlfriend and I are studying Tantra and one tape we came across explains sex without a deep love as being akin to being with a dead person. My girlfriend agrees, however, I don't. I've had sex with women I didn't love that was magnificent. -- Internet Chat Sex without love is an empty experience but as empty experiences go, it's one of the best. -- Woody Allen Sex without love is like taking a shit: it feels good while doing it but stinks after. -- Graffiti in public toilet. [When I ate nothing but Corn & Soybeans for one year, my shit was golden and did not smell bad.] Sex Without Love By Sharon Olds How do they do it, the ones who make love without love? Beautiful as dancers, Gliding over each other like ice-skaters over the ice, fingers hooked inside each other's bodies, faces red as steak, wine, wet as the children at birth, whose mothers are going to give them away. How do they come to the come to the come to the God come to the still waters, and not love the one who came there with them, light rising slowly as steam off their joined skin? These are the true religious, the purists, the pros, the ones who will not accept a false Messiah, love the priest instead of the God. They do not mistake the lover for their own pleasure, they are like great runners: they know they are alone with the road surface, the cold, the wind, the fit of their shoes, their over-all cardio- vascular health -- just factors, like the partner in the bed, and not the truth, which is the single body alone in the universe against its own best time. [How do they do it? They do it for Money and have an understanding of what it is, illusions, fantasy, action.] Sex without love is merely healthy exercise. -- Robert A. Heinlein Sex is like washing your face -- just something you do because you have to. Sex without love is absolutely ridiculous. Sex follows love, it never precedes it. -- Sophia Loren (Italian film actress, b.1934) Romantic Love By Edgar Winter [Edited by Sexxxy Raquel666] Free love also tends to equate love with sex; so sex becomes a more casual act, like shaking hands. You can have sex without love, and you can have love without sex but when you have them both together, that’s a third thing entirely different from the other two. That’s what I call “Romantic Love”! Most people talk about love as though it happens every day. Most of them would have a hard time accepting the idea that romantic love exists. They would call it a naive, childlike, fairy tale, a story-book fantasy that you’re just not likely to see in the real world. Sadly enough, for the most part, they’re right -- not about the nature of love but about the fact that we see so little of it! They would say that anyone with such an unrealistic dream would surely face a life of hopeless disillusion and despair. I say just the opposite: It is the person who is so logical, so reasonable, and therefore to rigid and unwilling to open his heart enough to admit even the possibility of love, who is destined to live the life of unhappiness and quiet desperation; too afraid to hope, to afraid to dream, too afraid to believe. Love is like God: it’s existence can not be proved, it must be accepted on faith [or experience]. If we see too little love in the world, the sadness is that there are too few people who have the innocence and simplicity of spirit to believe. Whoever said, “love is blind” didn’t quite get it right. I believe love sees all, reveals all, and understands all. True love is when a person holds up a mirror that allows you to see yourself as you truly are. |
| *** At a forum of Prostitution in Amsterdam someone sent me this in regards to "happy hookers." Hi, this is ten years that i am practicing the amsterdam RLD and i can tell you that none of the women enjoy the sex they have with customer. I discussed a lot with many even outside windows. It does not mean some do not enjoy their job. I would classify as follow : 1/ the rip-off artist. They enjoy to rip you off. 2/ the drugged and pimped girls. they are not able to enjoy anything 3/ the pimped girls. For instance a lot of African girls in the oudekerk area. they do it because they have to pay back a lot of money. Some are really nice but they are forced to do it. 4/ the bored girls, they do it because they are pretty and find it the easiest way to earn quite a lot of money. they do not enjoy it, they just want your money and to kick you out as soon as possible. It does not mean they are ripp off. 5/ the professional. They do their job as i do mine. Good provider. For instance Stella, i remember she told me "i enjoy my job not because of sex but because i meet a lot of people". Also Annie, F. from Surinam in the covered area and many other regular workers. I have one (damned) great exception. 6/ the occasional girls. My best time (except the exception) was with them. I will not affirm they enjoyed the sex but they provide GFE and were really happy to be with you and proved it. 7/ the ones who like sex with customers and have orgasm. Never met one but i am sure some punters know many. He he. 8/ Most pre op TS. i can not fit them in any other categories. I consider myself an "occasional girl" and GFE is okay if I'm being paid, in fact, guys that like GFE are usually the best. |